Subject: 40 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW!!!


1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If
he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's
character, leave him alone.

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not meant to be. .

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be
friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

8. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but
don't let faith make you stupid. God does things
decent and in order.

9. Don't settle.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship
is you.

12. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he
doesn't want you.

13. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.

15. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't
call, he just isn't that interested.

16. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along

17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove
yourself from the situation to let him figure things
out (but don't wait for him, move on).

18. If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat
you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not
just mom).

19. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man,
nothing more nothing less.

20. Actions speak louder than words.

21. Never let a man define who you are.

22. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

23. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean
that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you
are meant to be with him.

24. Know that you deserve to be the number one person
in the life of the #1 person in your life.

25. Love is a verb.

26. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to
make someone unavailable-available, someone
ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

27. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.

28. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone
else.

29. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart

30. You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.

31. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary..

32. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are
getting out of it.

33. When actions and words conflict, believe the
actions. Respond to the actions.

34. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving
type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this
world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.

35. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always
know where you are, and you're always readily
available to him he takes it for granted..

36. When it's time to let go; let go.

37. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but
get to know others.

38. Never believe a man that tells u he want to be
with you, while he's with someone else, - if he wanted
to be with you, he would make it happen more sooner
than later.

39. Don't be a man's door at , make him open the door
for you, because a real man would do this on his own.

40. There is someone out there worthy to be in your
life, let out the trash so he can come in.